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saturdaychores:

On Thursday, we received kind words of support from Suzanne Buckley, the Executive Director of NARAL (National Abortion and Reproductive Rights Action League) NC. On Saturday night, we received word from her that the clinic’s physician loved the protection and barrier we offered outside of the clinic on Saturday morning. Progress!


saturdaychores:

On Thursday, we received kind words of support from Suzanne Buckley, the Executive Director of NARAL (National Abortion and Reproductive Rights Action League) NC. On Saturday night, we received word from her that the clinic’s physician loved the protection and barrier we offered outside of the clinic on Saturday morning. Progress!

Anonymous said: omg if baby oil dissolves condoms what the fuck does it do to babies???

the-kellin-under-the-vic:

This may be shocking, but babies and condoms are made of different material


cloysterbell:

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Princesses + kids 

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HAHAHAHAHA THE CAT’S FACE. 


imsorryimovedtoaidanturnerspants:

HAHAHAHAHA THE CAT’S FACE. 

angrybagel:

angrybagel:

“NO HOMO” i scream at my dog Homo as he shits on the carpet 

i made this up for notes i dont even have a dog 

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theyreoutofcontrol:

Interviewer: “so where do you see yourself in five years?”
Me: “I’m shaking hands with Dumbledore I’ve won the house cup”

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WAKE UP, FANDOM

IT’S OUR DAY


"Anyone is capable of great good, and great evil."

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Harry Potter tumblr style // inspired by (x)

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http://daeranilen.tumblr.com/post/86486461740/should-parents-read-their-daughters-texts-or-monitor

daeranilen:

daeranilen:

daeranilen:

Earlier today, I served as the “young woman’s voice” in a panel of local experts at a Girl Scouts speaking event. One question for the panel was something to the effect of, "Should parents read their daughter’s texts or monitor her online activity for bad language and inappropriate content?"

I…

Apparently people are rediscovering this post somehow and I think that’s pretty cool! Having experienced similar violations of trust in my youth, this is an important issue to me, so I want to add my personal story:

Around age 13, I tried to express to my mother that I thought I might have clinical depression, and she snapped at me “not to joke about things like that.” I stopped telling my mother when I felt depressed.

Around age 15, I caught my mother reading my diary. She confessed that any time she saw me write in my diary, she would sneak into my room and read it, because I only wrote when I was upset. I stopped keeping a diary.

Around age 18, I had an emotional breakdown while on vacation because I didn’t want to go to college. I ended up seeing a therapist for - surprise surprise - depression.

Around age 21, I spoke on this panel with my mother in the audience, and afterwards I mentioned the diary incident to her with respect to this particular Q&A. Her eyes welled up, and she said, “You know I read those because I was worried you were depressed and going to hurt yourself, right?”

TL;DR: When you invade your child’s privacy, you communicate three things:

  1. You do not respect their rights as an individual.
  2. You do not trust them to navigate problems or seek help on their own.
  3. You probably haven’t been listening to them.

Information about almost every issue that you think you have to snoop for can probably be obtained by communicating with and listening to your child.

Part of me is really excited to see that the original post got 200 notes because holy crap 200 notes, and part of me is really saddened that something so negative has resonated with so many people.